So then: As Soapbox Monkey pointed out, a lot of eye contact sex on first date without condom might make a guy even more nervous than he is already, which for some guys is pretty significant, especially with a new lover.
Most people arent paying attention to what theyre looking at most of the time.
The non-verbal cue for Give.It didnt make a great impression.Either theyre busy and focusing on something else, or youre about as intriguing to look at as grandmas new wallpaper.Instead, go for a happy medium.Centuries of literature and million-dollar films have thrived off of what the Dreamboat stare signifies.
Because nice, friendly people always look other nice, friendly people in the eyes, right? Most have dealt with their share of irrational and dramatic relationships.When undesired, the eye fuck is exceedingly creepy.And youre always worried that people *think* youre lying.I cant think of any other reasonable explanation.Im never going to win this.An unintentional absence of eye contact signals a lack of knowledge you exist.Differentiating between Level 2 eye contact and Level 1 eye contact is subtle and hard to do consistently with any sort of accuracy.
Its what we humans are obsessed with on some level.
Theyre everywhere and nowhere.